Talk about the scene before the scene.
Kink Negotiation turns the conversation into a guided Kink Card — your wants, limits, and needs — that you can share privately with a partner.
No account needed · Private by default · Free
Kink Negotiation is a project from TheDuchy, a shibari education community. It turns a trusted scene-negotiation worksheet into a guided, private tool — built by people who care about consent.
How It Works
Build your Kink Card
A guided walk-through covering your wants, limits, health notes, and aftercare.
The Kink Card focuses on a curated set of the most common activities. Easy to start a real conversation, fast to fill out, and quick for your partner to read. It isn’t a comprehensive catalogue. A more detailed version may follow.
Before you start, remember
- This is the beginning of negotiations — you still need to talk.
- There are no right or wrong answers. If you give honest and complete answers you will probably have more fun!
- Don’t up-negotiate mid-scene. If you didn’t discuss it, don’t do it.
- Consent can be revoked any time before or during a scene, but not after.
Remember to keep asking the question: “What do you mean by ______?” — your definition of a word may not match your partner's.